What should I do when people ask me “What should I do?”
Can’t tell you what to do because I don’t want to take the responsibility of your life. I can only let you pour all grudges and tears and despair out on me, and maybe make you see the situation clearly. But please don’t ask me to dictate you how to live your life.
You don’t have to feel responsible if things turn out different or bad from what you advised them. First of all, it is their decision that they follow your advise and if they ever blame on you. They shouldn’t and they don’t have the right. It is foremost their own decision to heed other’s people advise. Bottom line, it’s their own mistake. All you do is just say what you think and it’s up to them to take or leave your advice.